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6 Sex Scenes That Are Hard for Guys to Watch

6 Sex Scenes That Are Hard for Guys to Watch

by Christopher Campbell

I initially planned to write an Antichrist-inspired list of most misogynistic movies ever made. But after some minor research, I decided that as a man, even one who has studied feminist film theory, I’m not the best judge of what titles to choose. Besides, I figure there are already enough places on the web where we can debate whether or not Neil LaBute and Lars von Trier are misogynistic filmmakers or if they are in fact the opposite.

I could have instead attempted a list of movies that are misandric, but I don’t think hatred towards men is equally as off-putting to male viewers as misogyny is to women. So, here’s something slightly similar, also inspired by Antichrist (particularly a disturbing genital-mutilation scene in the film), because there’s certainly nothing more difficult for men to watch than scenes in which male sex organs are harmed.

Of course, cinema has been hurting guys’ balls for laughs throughout the existence of motion pictures. And plenty of action and horror flicks depict castration by shotgun, knife, van door and other means on a regular basis. Therefore, I’ve gone specifically with these six sex scenes, since they add to the pain by first teasing pleasure. But no, masochistic delight is nowhere to be found in any of these hard-to-watch movie moments.

Accidental Castration in The World According to Garp (1982)

Let’s begin with a comparatively innocent scene — meaning the castration is, unlike the rest on this list, completely unintentional. Helen (Mary Beth Hurt) and her grad student lover (Mark Soper) are in the driveway in a parked car. As she is giving him head, her husband, Garp (Robin Williams), and their sons pull into the driveway too fast and crash into the first auto, causing Helen to accidentally bite off the poor student’s penis. There’s more tragedy involved, though; one of the couple’s young sons is killed in the crash while the other loses an eye.

Playful Biting Gone Wrong in The War of the Roses (1989)

At some point amidst the insane divorce battle between Barbara and Oliver Rose (Kathleen Turner and Michael Douglas), she offers him some oral sex. But it turns out not to be a gesture of peace and love. She really sinks her teeth into the act, literally. Unlike most of the scenes on this list, though, Oliver’s penis is fortunately never severed.

Oral Vengeance in The Last House on the Left (1972)

I can understand the gullibility of Michael Douglas in The War of the Roses, but the guy in this scene is unbelievably naïve. After kidnapping, raping and murdering a teenage girl with his buddies, dude must think he’s pretty lucky to be propositioned for a blowjob by the girl’s mother (Cynthia Carr). Too bad Mom knows about his guilt and has really just made the offer so that she can bite off his penis. For some reason, though, it takes her awhile before she stops pleasuring the guy and commits the horrific deed.

Boner Blood Bath in I Spit on Your Grave (1978)

Similarly gullible, one of the men who rapes Camille Keaton later believes that she wants him again, in a hot bath. She brings him to her cottage and the two get into the tub, where she proceeds to give him a hand job. Just before he’s ready to orgasm, she reaches for a knife and castrates him, causing him to bleed to death.

Castration by Vagina in Teeth (2007)

There are actually three equally uncomfortable sex scenes in this black horror-comedy. Dawn (Jess Weixler) has Vagina dentata, meaning she’s got teeth down there, and though they don’t chomp down on anything that enters her, they are quite unforgiving of rapists and dishonest lovers. It just so happens that none of her three sexual partners is worthy enough to avoid being castrated during intercourse. The last victim is the worst off, though, because his penis ends up being eaten by his dog.

Ball Bust in On the Doll (2007)

Had enough with the castration? Okay, we’ll finish the list off with the slightly tamer punishment of ball busting. Call girl Balery (Brittany Snow) takes revenge on a regular client by teasing him with sex, tying him up and pummeling his genitals as hard as she can. And if you’re brave enough to watch (likely for the first time since this is a barely seen movie), there’s a clip of the scene above. This part was actually used in the marketing of the film (including the poster), so I doubt that very many men bothered to go see it or rent it.

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I feel no sympathy for the guy in the last clip, she must have gone through a lot of pain caused by him :(
Glad she did that >:)

rudy perales

fck u hoe thas fcked up shit


Hi, the last scene is not a castration, as it may feel so… the guy is a masochist who hires this girl for ballbusting, but she goes a little bit crazy, because she was abused when she was a child… she steals his money after he goes blank… But in this film there is a real castration by the end… two young girls cut his teacher’s balls with a surgery wire… That’s a castration!


Xomments like the one made by beth that she is “glad” to have seen that make me hate women and want to beat the living shit out of beth. women have no sympathy for men, that’s why we are stronger and superior and why women have to fantasize about emascuialting men


Yes beth and any woman who decides to get on my nerves will be pummbeled in the tits.

Because after all they will “deserve” it.

Its sad that females have this sort of attitude, that if any male hurts them in any way they can murder/mutilate them and it will be ok.

Privileged sexist females at work in the west.


this is kind of scary


the fucken lady has no heart but anyway good luck to them and i hope they die


females should be more nicer to men .when she punched him it was kind of crool to do that to a gye that was inasent and heartfull


Fuck off Beth, I’m a chick who can’t stand you feminist idiots. Go be a good girl and make your man a damn sandwich. Seriously though, true feminism is EQUAL rights, not “I like to say I’m equal to men but want more and more and more” Stop your whining and quit giving all of us with vaginas bad names.

To all you men, on behalf of the cool women I apologize for this Beth creature.


bastards! ! BASTARDS ! ! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ASSOLE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


the on the doll thing cant even be called a sex scene…………


I remember that ending to teeth it was weird seriously Teeth was interesting the first guy that got his yeah bit off by her vag was weird cuz later the came back to check if he was ok and saw a crab eating his yeah O_o


This is why women are the stronger sex!!! Wen can castrate men, but they can’t! We can take your manhood away, we can deprive men of their manhood, and they are aware of it, and they fear it, they know that the opposite sex can master them by what makes them be a man (and is supposed to be their strengh) but it is in fact their weakness. Their are weak in their own “strenght”! Hahaha! Weak men!

To Castrator....

I’d love to go to town on you for a few hours….we’ll see who is weaker


lol, i’m a man, I kicked several girls in the ovaries it was very weak kick what I had done, and two girls ended up in hospital when I was 22. Btw, why are women jeaulous of men because men are stronger and better. That’s what the Bible says


Btw, I can also push my hand in girls vagina and then rip the ovaries off of them. Hilarious


Wow, this are the first movies that are hard for guys to watch, all the 1000 others were hard for women to watch. Btw, I’m a MAN and I don’t have period and weak body!!
God thanks I’m not a girl! I’m a MAN!! the gift of the world! :D

Dr. Hammerstein

In a banned japanese film called grotesque, the evil doctor hammers nails in a man’s testicles and then severs his penis afterwards. It was all in close up aswell. Best movie castration however has to be from Hostel ll

Dr. hammerstein

Beth, are you that castration fan from LikeLike by any chance?


who have castration scene or video please email to me (


everyone is getting mad at Beth’s comment. what’s funny is that the character in the movie was a client of hers, who was into ballbusting. he really didn’t do anything to her, just paid her to ballbust him. so all of this banther and arguing was caused by a simple misconception.


y'all are ALL dumb…


Wow… People are really turning into waste of space retards… I, for one, don't believe women are stronger or better than men, I am a woman but I'm also a realist. Men have traits women will never have (besides the physical) and vice versa… But men and women are supposed to "compliment" each other, and now everywhere you go people, mostly men, carry on about how they would love to "punish" women. To be honest, I'm a submissive, as in, submit to my partner, but seeing what's happening in the world actually makes me terrified to trust any man with my well-being. All about causing pain, ripping, tearing, breaking… and yeah, any woman who condones castration or any kind of torture isn't worth her anthropological weight, but having men say stuff like that… Men, according to the oldest writings, are meant to be the strong ones, meant to protect and provide, but I've found, most men nowadays would just as soon crush a woman than treat her in any kind of good way. Thank God for the end of days, hoping it comes soon though so I don't have to witness the further decline in humanity.


@ NIX I think you're right about complimenting one another, enjoying a theoretical potential for a symbiotic relationship beyond the obvious means of perpetuating our species. However, I'm not sure one can deem one gender better than the other per se. In the cognitive, women's thought patterns are emotionally based while mens' are in ration. This diversity could very well lead to the suggestion of an novel idea in response to a challenge! In pshysical ability, unquestionably the male of our species tends to be larger ande brawnier

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