Those conversations and debates are about to be heard across North America as "Waltz" makes its theatrical debut this weekend, nine months after it premiered in Polley's hometown at the Toronto International Film Festival (the films is also currently available on VOD via Magnolia Pictures).
In said trouble Polley approaches a common cinematic theme -- love versus lust and why we make the decision to stay or leave a relationship; all with an intelligent, heartfelt spirit essentially extinct from Hollywood romantic comedies. When it all comes together, it's difficult to avoid feeling awed by Polley's gently profound musings on love, life, and how we often selfishly handle both.
"I wanted to make a film about the concept of emptiness and about life having a gap in it," Polley said of the film. "I had this idea of having the film beginning and ending with the same image of a woman sweltering hot in kitchen, content but feeling like there was something essential missing. A kind of feeling of emptiness hanging over her. All I knew about the film was that it would begin and end with that image and that in between we would see her try and upend her entire life to try and avoid that very feeling."
Polley said that secondary to that came the idea of making a film about relationships and romantic desire.
"We blame that feeling of emptiness very often on our romantic relationships or our lack thereof," she said.
Despite a lot of raw emotion on display, Polley insists the film's is not at all autobiographical.
"I feel like I connect to all of these characters very equally and that I've been bits of all these characters at various points in my life," she said. "I feel like everyone who sees the film seems to connect to one character over another. It's interesting to me. Some people love Michelle's character and some people really hate her. Some people love Seth Rogen's character. Other people think she should have left him years ago. It doesn't seem to me like there's an obvious point of view in terms of the characters."
There also aren't any obvious answers in terms of the narrative. Polley never relies on convention to explore her story. It isn't tied all up with a perfect ending, nor does it bring resolve to the questions it asks. And there are many: Why do we always want something new over what we already have? And why don't we actually go for it? Are we simply afraid of being afraid? Is monogamy even possible? Do sex and love really go hand in hand? Is love even real?
"Because the film wasn't specifically personal to me in terms of the story," Polley said, "it sort of just felt like making any other film where it's talking about things or saying things you're interesting in spreading conversation about."
Another topic of conversation likely to spread from "Waltz" is the way it uniquely approaches sexuality. The film has many scenes of explicit nudity, including some incredibly sexy moments between Williams and Kirby. But it also explores nudity without a romantic context, particularly in one scene where Williams and a bunch of other women of all sizes and ages are showering after a swim in the pool.
"A lot of the film is about sexual restlessness and sexual desire," Polley said. "I didn't want to shy away from it. I certainly didn't want to shy away from the human body. But I also wanted to avoid some of the cliches that I've seen in films like this before. The shower scene for me was a way of combatting some of that stuff. I feel like whenever we see the female body in films -- at least in North American, English-speaking films -- I do feel the female body is either objectified or made fun of, depending on what age it is. I just wanted to -- since I was going to be showing the human body in a sexual context anyway -- show it in a more everyday way as well without too much comment."